Four months after Carly Waddell teased that she had a new man in her life, she introduced followers to her boyfriend, Todd Allen Tressler, on Instagram. The 37-year-old singer and reality television star, known for her appearance on "Bachelor in Paradise," has taken a significant step in her personal life by sharing her relationship with Todd. Previously married to Evan Bass, Carly is excited to reveal how she met Todd and what he does for a living, showcasing her newfound happiness.
Carly's journey to love has been quite the ride, and her story of meeting Todd is just as captivating. When she first laid eyes on him during a television interview, she was struck not only by his looks but by the warmth of his smile. This moment sparked a connection that would lead to their eventual relationship, proving that sometimes love can bloom unexpectedly.
The couple’s relationship blossomed quickly after they connected online, further highlighting the modern way people are finding love today. Carly's candidness about her feelings and experiences reflects her growth and desire for genuine companionship. As she shares snippets of their journey together, fans can't help but root for her happiness in this new chapter of her life.
Who Is Bachelor in Paradise’s Carly Waddell’s Boyfriend?
Todd Allen Tressler is a lawyer who founded Tressler & Associates, PLLC. The firm, located in middle Tennessee, specializes in "real estate, business, and estate planning legal services," according to its website. Todd started the company in 2009.
He also owns Tressler Title, which he founded in 2016. "[We are an] attorney-owned and operated title and escrow company committed to making your closing day meaningful," the company’s website states. Todd leads the vision and strategic direction of both companies, showcasing his expertise in real estate law and business law.
Todd’s biography provides insight into his personal interests as well. He enjoys spending time with his family, including his new pup Big Al, traveling the world, and cheering on Tennessee Vols football. He graduated from The University of Tennessee in 2001 and completed his law degree at Nashville Law School in 2007.
How Did Bachelor in Paradise’s Carly Waddell Meet Her Boyfriend?
Carly officially introduced Todd on Instagram on March 14, 2024, detailing their unique meeting story. "My TV was on mute in the middle of last year, and this man came on being interviewed on the midday news about his business," she recounted. "I stopped in my tracks. It wasn’t just that I found him handsome. There was something about his smile."
After remembering Todd’s name and feeling a connection, Carly reached out to him after encouragement from her friends. "I slid into his DMs after 'a few too many glasses of wine,'" she admitted, noting that Todd was not familiar with "Bachelor" and initially thought his friends were playing a joke.
After exchanging likes on social media, Carly awkwardly messaged Todd, asking, "So are [we] just gonna keep liking each other's stuff?" This led to her inviting him out in a voice text that she never intended to send. Their first date was magical, with Carly telling her mom, "I will forever measure every other date to what that just was because it was magic," expressing her excitement about their chemistry.
When Did Carly Waddell Start Dating Her Boyfriend?
While Carly did not reveal an exact date for when she and Todd started dating, it’s confirmed that their relationship began in 2023. She first spotted Todd on her television in the middle of that year, highlighting the timeline of their connection.
In a November 2023 interview, Carly confirmed she was seeing someone, suggesting that their relationship had already blossomed by that point. She described Todd as "literally everything I’ve ever wanted in a human," showcasing her happiness in this new chapter of her life.
When introducing Todd to her followers, Carly shared that she kept their relationship private initially to ensure that both her children and she were comfortable with him. This thoughtfulness reflects her commitment to her family and her desire to foster meaningful relationships.
What Happened Between Bachelor in Paradise’s Carly Waddell and Evan Bass?
Before her relationship with Todd, Carly was married to Evan Bass, whom she met on season 3 of "Bachelor in Paradise" in 2016. Although she was initially hesitant, they fell in love and got engaged on the show, marrying in June 2017 in Mexico. The couple welcomed two children, Bella and Charlie, but announced their split in December 2020.
Evan has expressed that their transition from the reality show to real life was challenging. "I think that when we got out of [Paradise], we weren’t able to set a proper foundation," he explained, indicating that the lack of real-life challenges made their relationship difficult once they left the show. This reflection highlights the complexities of relationships formed in a reality TV setting.
Through her experiences, Carly has shown resilience and the ability to embrace new beginnings, as seen in her relationship with Todd. As she continues to navigate motherhood and love, fans are eager to support her journey ahead.
