Taylor Krause and Garrett Josemans may have made it down the aisle during season 7 of Love Is Blind, though they revealed that their first year of marriage wasn’t always easy. While appearing on the Wednesday, November 13, episode of “The Viall Files” podcast, Taylor, 30, and Garrett, 33, shared that choosing where to live initially felt like an “irreconcilable” decision. The couple opened up about their struggles and how they learned to communicate through their challenges.
During their time on the reality show, fans witnessed the couple oscillate between wanting to move closer to Taylor's family in San Diego and staying on the East Coast, where they initially lived when filming began. Ultimately, they tried out life on the West Coast, but during the reunion episode, Taylor and Garrett revealed that they would be moving back East to Washington, D.C. This decision was not made lightly, as it came with its own set of difficulties.
Garrett expressed that their biggest struggle was the understanding that, despite their love for each other, they had to face real feelings and communication challenges. “That was our biggest struggle this summer was working through that together and understanding we still love each other, wanna make this work, but these are real feelings that we’re feeling and trying to understand them and communicate them at the same time,” he told host Nick Viall.
Understanding the Challenges of Relocation in Marriage
Relocating after marriage can be a daunting task for many couples, and Taylor and Garrett's experience is a testament to that reality. Taylor acknowledged that many couples face similar obstacles, especially those coming from reality dating shows, where the premise often pushes individuals to make quick decisions about their future. “I think that’s what happens for a lot of Bachelor people — that they’re not in the same city and then you transition into this big relationship really quickly,” she noted.
The couple's decision to move back East was especially difficult for Garrett, who had to be honest about his desire to return. “It was hard for Garrett to tell me that he wanted to move back East, though he had to be honest so that we could figure out what a compromise looked like and how to move forward together,” Taylor explained. This honesty was crucial for their relationship, allowing them to navigate their feelings collaboratively.
“There was lots of sleepless nights and tears, and it wasn’t easy,” Taylor reflected. She also mentioned the positive impact of therapy, stating, “I also luckily have found a fantastic therapist that I’ve been working with for the past six months.” This support has helped them work through their marital challenges, emphasizing the importance of mental health in navigating tough decisions.
The Evolution of Attraction in Relationships
In addition to relocation challenges, Taylor and Garrett discussed their initial struggles with physical attraction. “To be completely honest, Garrett and I were not attracted to each other at first,” Taylor shared. This candid admission sheds light on a common issue many couples face: the transition from emotional connection to physical attraction.
Despite their initial hesitations, the couple quickly adjusted during a cast trip to Cabo San Lucas, Mexico. “In Cabo, I was like, ‘This guy’s really hot,’” Taylor recalled, with Garrett agreeing, “100 percent.” This transformation in perception highlights how shared experiences can help couples connect on multiple levels, reinforcing the importance of spending quality time together.
As they continue to navigate their first year of marriage, Taylor emphasizes the importance of honesty in their relationship. “I know I gave you my non-negotiables going through it, and it really hurt when you were honest with me,” she told Garrett. “But I would way rather you have been honest with me than, let’s say in three years, you freak out and you’ve been holding this in.”
Key Takeaways from Their Journey
What You Will Learn
- Communication is essential in navigating relationship challenges.
- Relocation can be a significant stressor for newlyweds.
- Therapy can provide valuable support for couples during tough transitions.
- Physical attraction can evolve over time through shared experiences.
Ultimately, Taylor and Garrett's candid discussions about their struggles serve as a reminder that love requires effort, understanding, and open communication. Their journey showcases that even after finding love in a unique setting, the realities of life together can present challenges that require patience and teamwork to overcome.
As they continue to figure things out, Taylor's reflections on their journey demonstrate the importance of understanding and growth in relationships. “After I grieved it and figured it out with you and had a lot of difficult conversations and feelings, I think we got to the other side,” she shared, indicating that while challenges are inevitable, so is the possibility of growth and connection.
