Joey Graziadei feared the worst when he received a note from Kelsey Anderson that said, “We need to talk,” on The Bachelor. This troubling message followed their intimate fantasy suite date on the March 11 episode, where Kelsey expressed her deep feelings by telling Joey that she was “in love” with him. The anticipation surrounding their upcoming conversation left fans on edge as both contestants had to navigate the complexity of their emotions.
During the March 18 episode, Kelsey, 25, and Joey, 28, finally addressed the note that had sparked such concern. Kelsey emphasized, “I feel like we kind of promised each other about being honest about communicating our feelings.” She expressed the difficulty of not seeing him and how the days apart were emotionally taxing. Kelsey candidly shared her feelings, stating, “All these feelings of missing or wondering... is just because I really care about you.”
Despite his relief that Kelsey had no plans to leave him, Joey struggled with the overwhelming emotions triggered by the note. He told Kelsey, “It just sucks that I had to be feeling that a few moments ago.” The conversation ended on an uneasy note, and Kelsey later reflected that she would have approached writing the letter differently if given the chance. She noted, “It wasn’t my intention for him to feel any stress…but I don’t want him to feel that way. I want him to be excited to see me.”
Ultimately, Joey chose to give Kelsey a rose during the ceremony, alongside Daisy Kent, leading to Rachel Nance's elimination. This decision came as Kelsey grappled with her doubts about their relationship, despite Joey's assurances of his feelings for her. She expressed her internal struggle, saying, “My brain is going all over the place... There’s something I need to talk about with Joey.”
Kelsey was determined to maintain transparency with Joey, promising herself to share her thoughts throughout the process. She insisted that it was crucial to discuss her feelings before the rose ceremony, stating, “I don’t want to blindside Joey ever. I just want to be honest.” Meanwhile, Joey felt shaken by the note, unsure of its implications, expressing that it could derail everything if something were truly wrong.
In the weeks leading to their fantasy suite date, Joey had shared his fears of not being chosen by the one he desired. He reiterated, “This is, like, my worst nightmare coming true,” and conveyed his frustration with feeling unchosen despite his efforts. The emotional rollercoaster that Joey and Kelsey experienced highlights the complexities of love and communication on reality television.